Hebrews 12:15 (TPT);
“Watch over each other to make sure that no one misses the revelation of God’s Grace. And make sure no one lives with a root of bitterness sprouting within them which will only cause trouble and poison the hearts of many.”
While preparing to write this blog, I heard the following statement from The Holy Spirit:
“YOU MUST BREAK BITTERNESS BEFORE IT BREAKS YOU!”
Stunned, I realized then that this is an urgent warning to all of us from The Heart of God!
What Is Bitterness?
According to the Cambridge English Dictionary, Someone bitter is angry and unhappy because they cannot forget bad things that happened in the past.
How Does Bitterness Break Us?
First and foremost, bitterness will cause us to miss the revelation of God’s Grace, as stated in Hebrews 12:15. Without a revelation of God’s Grace, His Love will not be a tangible reality to us, and we will never be able to comprehend or receive true forgiveness for our sins. We will also be unable to extend Christ-Like Grace, Mercy, and Forgiveness toward another individual who has sinned against us. Living in this perpetual state of un-forgiveness creates an atmosphere of torment in our souls and will manifest in our lives. This heavy load of bitterness then becomes a beast of burden that we carry around within us, and it will eventually break us.
Matthew 11:28-30 (TPT);
“Are you weary, carrying a heavy burden? Then come to me, I will refresh your life, for I am your oasis.” “Simply join your life with mine. Learn my ways and you’ll discover that I’m gentle, humble, easy to please. You will find refreshment and rest in me.” “For all that I require of you will be pleasant and easy to bear.”
This Word is Good News, my friend! Though the weight of bitterness will continually try to break us, God has an answer for us as we learn His Ways.
How Do We Break Bitterness?
The Oxford Languages Dictionary offers a simple and concise definition of the word forgive.
FORGIVE = Stop feeling angry or resentful toward someone for (an offense, flaw, or mistake).
Matthew 6:14-15 (TPT);
“And when you pray, make sure you forgive the faults of others so that your Father in Heaven will also forgive you.” “But if you withhold forgiveness from others, your Father withholds forgiveness from you.”
This scripture is astounding! You and I can cause GOD TO WITHHOLD HIS FORGIVENESS FROM US, WHILE OUR PRAYERS GO UN-HEARD! When we choose to withhold forgiveness from someone who has hurt us or that we perceived has hurt us, we are planting a root of bitterness within our hearts. Unforgiveness keeps our prayers from effectively being heard by God! By not breaking bitterness, we forge a, “Barrier of Bitterness” over our hearts that repel the Love of God and His Blessings from flowing freely in our lives. Ultimately, if we refuse to identify and repent of bitterness, we will reject God and His Plan for our life!
Jeremiah 29:11-13 (MEV);
“For I know the plans that I have for you, says the Lord, plans for peace and not for evil, to give you a future and a hope.” “Then you shall call upon Me, and you shall come and pray to Me, and I will listen to you.” “You shall seek Me and find Me when you shall search for Me with all your heart.”
Bitterness is spiritual cancer that can spread quickly by stealing our future and killing our hope. Thus, causing trouble and poisoning the hearts of many, starting with ours! A poisoned heart is a divided heart. It is imperative that you and I consciously recognize and BREAK BITTERNESS BEFORE IT BREAKS US! The survival rate of the God Given relationships in our lives depends on our willingness to forgive decisively and quickly.
Recently I heard a teaching from a well-respected, trusted minister of The Gospel who shares some valuable eye-opening insight regarding the root of bitterness. He described bitterness as undeveloped murder. Another way that he put it is, bitterness is murder in diapers. This minister then went on to relay a story that impacted me. During his ministry, he had counseled two different people on two different occasions, who were believers. They came to him for help to break free from the root of bitterness. However, these individuals were so consumed with the “Spirit of Bitterness,” that they both ended up killing people and are now in jail after rejecting his help! My friend, These brutal acts of murder are a sobering account of “The Root of Bitterness” in action.
1st John 3:15 (TPT) describes the minister’s tragic story for us;
“Everyone who keeps hating a fellow Believer is a murderer,” and you know that no murderer has eternal life residing in him.”
The message from The Lord is loud and clear, my friend. We must ”Break Bitterness Before It Breaks Us!”
1st John 4:20-21 (MEV);
“If anyone says, “I love God,” and hates his brother, he is a liar. For whoever does not love his brother whom he has seen, how can he love God whom he has not seen?” “We have this commandment from Him: Whoever loves God must also love his brother.”
What Barriers of Bitterness are weighing you down?
Is there anyone, or perhaps even yourself that you need to forgive?
Are you, “Breaking Bitterness or is it Breaking You?”
If Breaking Free From Bitterness has been a battle for you, please join me in the following prayer:
Dear Heavenly Father, I recognize today that I have been carrying the heavy burden of the sin of bitterness and un-forgiveness. I come to You and lay it down at Your feet. Please forgive me for walking in bitterness and un-forgiveness toward_________________(name the person or persons).
By an act of my will, I release them now and choose to forgive them for hurting me. Father God, If I have unknowingly hurt someone, I ask that you bring their name to me now, and I ask that you forgive me for hurting them in Jesus’ Name! Direct may path to restitution for the pain and hurt that I have caused them in this situation.
Lord, I now receive the total cleansing, healing, strength, and refreshing that comes from Your Presence as I walk with an upright heart before You, in Jesus’ Name! Amen! I Love You, Lord!
II Chronicles 7:14 (AMPC);
“If My people, who are called by My Name, shall humble themselves, pray, seek, crave, and require of necessity My face and turn from their wicked ways, then will I hear from Heaven, forgive their sin, and heal their land.”
Be Strong and Live Free as you Break Bitterness………….. Boldly For Him!
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2 Replies to “Breaking Bitterness”
Thank you so much for posting this. I’ve been harboring bitterness towards a few people for an incident a few years back. This post really got me to thinking about how wrong I’ve been to harbor this bitterness.
Leigh, You Are Welcome!
Your response to this post has really touched my heart! Bitterness is such a deadly weapon that the enemy is constantly tempting us with. I am grateful to The Lord for His Heart to see us as the Body of Christ live in victory regarding this area.
My prayers are with you Leigh as you walk out the path of Forgiveness that is set before you.
Be Strong and Live Free…..Boldly For Him!